Daigotsu Shokomaru wrote:
"Have to admit, Hanako-san...", he seemed to have a weird time saying his family name, for some reason. "You seem pretty well-adjusted and thoughtful. Is that a common thing among your family? I know it might not seem like much to say, but...well...having met a lot of people here so far, and most folks being a bit stereotypical of what I've been told to expect from them, so far I think you've been the most refreshing if I'm being honest."
Just don't call him Hanako-chan by accident, that'll be one hell of an explanation to him and your sister.
"My family tends to be extremely traditional and proper in their approaches, but we are also expected to be diplomatic because of our duty. I think that those things along with my curiosity for the world outside of Rokugan lead to wanting to be more open to different ideas. It allows for more sympathy for others' positions. As for stereotypes... I wouldn't be surprised if some people lean into them outside of their own clan settings. Meeting expectations that others have for them and representing their people in the best way they know how."
"But I don't even really know what to truly expect when talking to others. I know broad strokes of the different clans, but not really enough to pin down any specific traits. So when I meet folks I can only really get to know them as a person. But I enjoy doing so."